Thursday, June 10, 2004

All people are significant

D. told me a story of what happened to him at work. He asked the secretary for some insight on how to organize part of the user interface he is making. He told her that she had the best organizing skills in the department, better than professors and programmers and system administrators. She was so pleased that someone recognized her and her skills. I am sure her week was made. It reminded me how much we can make a difference in the lives of those arounds us, just by being kind and respectful to them.

It made me think of a related story I got in an email....

During my second month of nursing school, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions, until I read the last one: "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"

Surely, this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank.

Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade.

"Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say 'hello'."

"I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.


3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I've heard a similar story about the Dalai Lama, who was being rushed out of a hotel to give a talk. As he was walking out, he stopped and went over to talk to all the cleaning staff and really acknowledged them, talking for 10 or 15 minutes.

the girl

Holly Miller said...

I remember reading that too... in a book by or about the Dalai Lama. It made a strong impression on me then. I'll try to find out where I read it. It may be on my groaning bookshelves still.

Anonymous said...

The one I read it in was The Art of Happiness.

the girl